A year of blogs has changed me....

I started this blog with the intention of whining about my two aggravating kids. But how long can somebody complain about their kids before you get tired of hearing it? Sure I could tell a story a day because they damn sure get on my nerves everyday. But what good is that? Eventually it all becomes one big complaint and while motherhood is that a lot of the time that is not all I am.

 

I am not just a mom I'm a daughter. I'm a sister. I'm a granddaughter. I'm a friend. I'm a citizen. And I'm a partner to someone else. And all of those people piss me off too!! So why shouldn't I be aloud to complain about all of them??

 

I should complain about all of those things because at least that's changing it up! But then why stop at complaining? Why not go a littler further and compliment or laugh or cry over something else happening to or around me? Why should I limit my blog to one particular topic? Sure I can be a bad mom. That's why I named my site that... But shouldn't I stick with that then. If I'm a bad mom then my focus won't always be on my children right? If I was a good mom wouldn't they be my focus? Well they aren't I'm sorry... At least not all of the time, they wish they were though, but don't all kids?

 

So after a while of talking about bad kids I decided I could broaden my topic categories. And I think that's what blogging is. You start with what you know and then move on from there. And that is what I have done. Of course I want to complain about my kids still. But would you read it every day if it was the same redundant shit everyday? Probably not. So therefore I try to throw a little diversity in here sometimes.

 

I write a bunch of shit and then I basically throw it in a hat and each morning I pick out a new topic that I want to post. Some are written ahead of time and some are spontaneous but that's just how I manage my schedule sometimes.

 

I know sometimes I'm neglectful. My posts may not be perfect but I'm not perfect, I know, big shocker... to me too. But really I am way, centuries away, from being perfect. Plus if there is misspelling its probably because I typed it on my phone and my phone is an idiot. It auto corrects things that shouldn't be corrected and doesn't correct other things. Plus I think from only spelling four to five letter words most of the time I have forgotten how to spell most of the bigger words, I have turned into a grown 3 year old I guess you could say.

 

I am never sure whether to write a long or short blog. I know that when I read another blog post or an article I don't like spending much time sitting and reading that one post. So I guess when I write my blogs I try to keep that in mind. Plus we are all adults here so at least you guys get the hidden message, with my kids I have to walk them through everything step by step so that means lots and lots of talking.

 

This new year has not changed a thing about how I feel about comments. I appreciate them. I like to hear what everyone says. I like getting the emails about blog posts so keep them coming! I will accept good or bad comments. Obviously I'm pretty open about everything so on here you can be too, and I wont judge you...unless you judge me to harshly.