I love this guys blogs. He is very real. He talks about ways he screwed up his marriage, how his wife did it, about his wife's new husband and the issues about that. It's nice to hear people admitting what they could have done better about something. Yes it would be nice if people would realize early on what it is they are doing wrong and work on it then but hind sight is always 20/20.
In this particular blog post he talks about the things his wife did that bothered him when instead of dealing with it he should have told her how he felt. Of course she may be offended at first, I know how we take things sometimes, but she may have noticed it once he pointed it out and she could have worked to fix it. I always try to make this point with Mike, I can't fix something I'm doing if I don't know its bothering him.
Communication is a big important thing in relationships. People now a days are so consumed in themselves and their technology that we forget our social skills and how to give a little and get along with others. I think it is only going to get worse with time if we don't start paying attention to our issues now. So pay more attention to your partner and your family and appreciate what you have, and if you are unhappy with something say it. Don't let it build up. I know Mike and I both have this issue and its something we are trying to work on, but its not like it can just happen in a day. But I am glad we are trying instead of just giving up and then looking back on it later and thinking of what we could have done to change it.
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