If you ask either of us who wears the pants in the relationship we will both point to ourselves. And its the truth. For the most part all aspects of our life are pretty equal. No one person is always the bad guy, we take turns. We both discipline pretty much the same way, however I believe in spanking, he doesn't so I respect how he feels and most of the time don't spank.
When it comes to other decisions we usually make them together, sometimes I just give in and other times he just gives in. And it seems to be easier that way. We won't always agree but if one of us can give in every now and then, then that is what matters. We can't always be fighting about who is right or wrong or in charge. It's both of us.
I think that is how family's should be. It is not fair for one person to always be in charge and make decisions and its not fair for one person to always be the bad guy. Obviously things can't always be equal but staying around that line is what really matters. That also clears out a lot of the resentment if each person can be right some of the time.
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